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It’s That Time Again

The time when: I spend more hours at the dentist and doctor’s office than my house, in a futile attempt to get every last thing addressed in the U.S.’s unmatchable but spendy healthcare system. I start kicking myself over how much crap we amassed in the last X year(s) and panicking over...

Our Little Girl is Growing Up

Today is Nia’s 5th grade “graduation” ceremony, which has me reflecting on how much she’s changed this year and the fact that we’re about to have a bona fide middle schooler on our hands. When we started the year, she was still solidly in the “little...

Our Unique Stay in a Former Sawmill!

For Memorial Day weekend we decided to do a short road trip to the nearby Shenandoah Valley, a place knowing for its peacefulness and stunning vistas. We had the good fortune of getting a unique Airbnb place to stay in. The property was built in the 18th century and was formerly a grist...

Our Almaty Housing Assignment!

Almaty at Night, Photo Credit: Edgarpo01 Yesterday was a big day for the Novaks–we learned where we’ll be living in Almaty! Receiving your housing assignment is one of the foreign-service-life milestones that happens with each posting. It’s important though, because it...

Spring Break Fun

Nick isn’t allowed to take any vacation days during his year of language training, so when Nia’s week-long spring break rolled around, we came up with the next best thing–we had her Grandparents come here! This is no small thing, as Nick’s Parents, Robert &...

The Art of Pysanky-Making

Happy Easter All! Today I wanted to share a bit about a unique experience Nia and I got to take part in last weekend. As I’ve mentioned before, Nia’s public school is the equivalent of a mini United Nations–a diverse mix of kiddos from different religious, cultural and...

Squat, Pop, Yelp

Hey Readers- How goes it? We’ve been having the most glorious non-wintery weather here in DC (recent high of 78!) and I am absolutely L-O-V-I-N-G it. Turns out that the winter weather I was longing for in Mumbai is much nicer in theory than reality (as I learned the hard way on my...

Changing Course: Part 3

My name spelled in Russian Cyrillic cursive I am back, as promised, to fill you in on my first month of Russian Language class at the Foreign Service Institute (FSI). For starters, the language is beautiful but complex. For example, Russian uses cases to show what function the noun plays...

Changing Course: Part 2

Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash Continuing our story… If you didn’t catch Part 1, read that first. I didn’t have much time to mentally process the news because Nia and I were headed to Minnesota the next day for our week-long Christmas visit. You can read about that here if...

Changing Course

Photo by Miguel Alcântara on Unsplash Last November my mental health was suffering greatly after being trapped inside for the entire month with a nasty cough and sinus infection. I was feeling very down and lonely and knew something needed to change. I was spending too much time alone...

The Realities of a Minnesota Christmas

I can’t tell you how many years I pined for a snowy, Minnesota Christmas–especially during our first two tours overseas. In my head, the best Christmases happened in Minnesota and came complete with laughter, cuddles under blankets, fresh coats of white snow, warm winter...

Our Teeny Tiny Fill-in Tree

Hello Everyone – Happy Holidays! I realize I have a lot to catch you up on since I haven’t written in so long. I guess I just haven’t felt like I have much to report lately. Our big news is that Nia and I came to Minnesota for Christmas. Yes, you read that right. Nick...

October Highlights

October is Nia’s birthday month, so to celebrate her 11th bday, we invited her cousin Armin and grandparents to come stay with us for five days. It was such a fun couple days. We had the most glorious fall weather and took full advantage by being outside as much as we could. We...

Taking Advantage of All D.C. Has to Offer

Some of you will be pleased to know that today’s update has no heavy emotional stuff in it (or at least I’m not planning on it but I guess one never knows where writing will take you…). Anyhooo. Mostly I just wanted to touch base and keep my promise to blog once a week...

It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year

It’s fall, my absolute favorite time of the year. You may assume it’s my favorite season because of the beautiful colors or the cooling temps or the delicious crispness of the air (cross my heart, I will never take clean air for granted again after living in Mumbai). And while...

Follow up to Yesterday’s Post [Rejection Stings, Even at 42]

Photo by Hello I’m Nik on Unsplash I was incredibly touched by how many of you read (and commented on) yesterday’s post. I did feel your love and support, so first and foremost, thank you for that. I wrote the post on a whim, and if I’m being honest, my ego was likely...

Rejection Stings, Even at 42

Good day all – Several of you noticed that my recent blogs have primarily been about Nick & Nia and asked that I give an update on what’s been happening with me. I’m touched to know you care about my goings-on and have decided to oblige your request with an entire...

Complicated Beginnings

Nick was originally scheduled to start language classes on Tuesday, September 6th–the day after labor day. That would have been fine and dandy if we didn’t have the kid with us, but we did, and school just so happened to start on Monday, August 29th. Given how nervous she was...

FSI, Nick’s Home Away from Home this Next Year

Well, look at that. I’m back already. How’s that for keeping my word?! In Tuesday’s post I filled you in about how we spent our summer, so today I’ll tell you what brought us to DC and how Nick will be spending his working hours this next year. But first, we need...

Summer 2022 Recap

Happy Fall y’all! Sincere apologies for my neglect of Novakistan these last three months . . . guess I needed a little break from blogging. The good news is I’m back, (mostly) refreshed and fully intending to post at least once a week going forward. Since I’ve been...

So Apparently COVID is Still a Thing

The relative normalcy of the last few months deluded me into believing I had control of my life again, that I could make intricate plans requiring everything to go ‘just so’ with no contingencies whatsoever. Silly Sarah, you never learn! The crazy part is, I get that control...

Monsoon is Here + Other Updates

Well, it happened. Monsoon is officially upon us, which means Mumbai will now be getting rain every day until the end of October. I was really hoping it’d hold out until after our packout, but no such luck. On the plus side though, rain clears out all the particulate in the air...

Ready or Not, Here Comes Packout

Hey Y’all – It’s June! Crazy, huh? I’m still trying to figure out what happened to May! Definitely bittersweet, although I am VERY over the 90 to 100 degree Fahrenheit temps we’ve had for the last few months. I’m praying for some mid-70s in Minnesota. Heck, I’d even take the...

A Foreign Service First for the Novaks!

May 2nd marked Nick’s and my 13th wedding anniversary. To celebrate, we planned a five-night, adults-only trip.  But where to go? A tropical getaway to the Maldives? A hidden spot in the Himalayas? Europe? Well… after thinking things through for a bit, we decided to do something...

The Magnificent Golden Temple of Amritsar

Our time in India is winding down (less than 4 months to go, can you believe it??) and one of the few remaining places on our ‘must see’ bucket list for India was the city of Amritsar in the State of Punjab. You may be familiar with the state of Punjab for its food (Northern Indian...

The Benefit of Challenging Old Biases: Part 2

Hi Everyone – If you haven’t read PART 1, you should definitely start there, as it provides some great historical context for this post about our time in Amritsar...

The Benefit of Challenging Old Biases – Part 1

Mention the word “Pakistan” and danger and/or violence are pretty much the only things that come up for me. I couldn’t tell you any good things about Pakistan, likely because I’ve never taken the time to challenge my initial perception of the country; an impression formed over the...

2022 Holi Mayhem

I reached down to grab my first handful of gulal but stopped short as a blast of yellow hit me square in the chest, the excess disappearing between my cleavage, tickling my torso as it tumbled its way down my tank top. I spun around to see who had hit me and was ambushed once again, a...

Beach Life & Creative Struggles

Hey All – Sarah here for our semi-regular touch-base! Has it really been three weeks since we last talked?? Ughhh. I blame February. It just seemed to evaporate! It’s crunch time here with less than five months left in India. I’ve still got a few places to check off my...

Belated Life Updates + Flying Flamingos

I am delinquent in my blog writing, I know. Let’s get caught up, shall we? The weeks between our trips to Udaipur (right before Christmas) and Pench (mid-January) were rough ones. If you’ll remember, our house had been torn up since early December due to the Sprinkler Debacle...

The Thrill of the Chase – Part 2

As the morning progressed, I couldn’t help but compare this safari experience to the ones we’d experienced in Africa. The first big difference was that there were far more cars around this time—it was very rare that you’d be the only one viewing an animal. The park guide who rode...

The Thrill of the Chase – Part 1

It’s 6:30 AM and dark as night. I cinch my blanket tighter around my arms and neck, a largely futile effort considering that the searingly cold air is smacking me at 30 mph and clearly has the upper hand. The cold permeates every pore in my body and I hastily nuzzle into Nia, hoping to...

Marvelous (and at Times, Maddening) India – Part 2

Day 2 in Udaipur The plan for our second day in Udaipur was a daytrip to two sites that I’d heard were worth the effort—the great Mewar Fortress of Kumbhalgarh and the splendid Jain temple Ranakpur. They were completed in 1458 and 1496, respectively, and both initiated by Rana Kumbha...

Marvelous (and at Times, Maddening) India – Part 1

Last Thursday marked the end of our first ‘adults-only’ trip in four years, to none other than romantic, stunning Udaipur— the Venice of India—complete with tours of the Maharana’s City Palace and a 600-year-old fort, candlelit dinners high above the glowing Water Palace and a...

The Sprinkler Debacle

It started out as a nice, normal Friday afternoon. Nick and I were preparing drinks for Happy Hour, debating what to do for dinner. We’d been told the “sprinkler guys” would be coming between 4 and 5 to test the fire sprinklers. We didn’t really know what that entailed, other than...

Book-Writing Update: November 2021

Photo by Jeremy Dorrough on Unsplash Hello dear readers – Thank you for stopping by. No, I really mean that—THANK YOU! I know that there are a bazillion and one things demanding your time and attention but you faithfully return to Novakistan time and time again to read about my life...

Early Morning Surprises

Hi Everyone – We spent the morning hiking amongst the beautiful ruins of Hampi, an ancient civilization from the 14th century. I am trying out a more detail-oriented style writing for my book and thought I’d practice by sharing a unique experience we had this morning. I hope...

Travel Crunch Time

Virupaksha Temple by Priyanka Visaria-Nayak We arrived in India 38 months ago. It was August 2018 and our first time having a three-year tour (which we later extended for a fourth year). It felt like I had all the time in the world as I busily went about setting up our house and getting...

Expat Senior Slide

Photo by Heather Mount on Unsplash With our next assignment now confirmed, we’ve entered what I like to refer to as the “Senior Slide” portion of the tour. This is the beginning of the end at post. Much like how getting accepted to a college made it feel “real” that you were...

And Our Next Post Is…

Almaty, Kazakhstan! “Almaty North view” by blavandmaster is licensed under CC BY-NC-SA 2.0 If you’re anything like me, you’ve probably heard of Kazakhstan but would have trouble picking it out on a map. Kazakhstan is actually just North of India and the Middle East...

How I Plan to Write My Book

Photo by Glenn Carstens-Peters on Unsplash The idea of writing and publishing a book is such a daunting task for most people that they immediately dismiss it outright (which is what I did for a long time). The sheer volume of time it takes to write, when combined with the steep learning...

A New Chapter Unfolds

Photo by Aung Soe Min on Unsplash Greetings dear ones – Happy Monday. I am here with exciting news. Not the news you were likely expecting about the location of our next tour, but a different kind of adventure for sure, more of an inner journey. Let’s just cut to the chase. Friends...

Facing Fears + Bidding Updates

Hey All – It’s good to be back with you again. I’m thrilled to report that Nick is home after 22 days in Abu Dhabi. We missed him immensely but were so proud of the amazing work he was doing—getting Afghan refugees on planes to America! It was a powerful experience and I am so...

Reflections on Indian Transportation

Pic by Kristen Our auto-rickshaw sped through the streets of Jodhpur, careening this way and that, locked in a tight race for God-knows-what with the motorcycle next to us. I close my eyes as I’m thrown against the meager padding of the rickshaw cab as we swerve just in time to narrowly...

Highlights from Mahabaleshwar

Hello again! This is a continuation of yesterday’s post, so if you haven’t read that yet, do so first to give you some context! We spread our sightseeing out over three days in four hour chunks that we could sneak in from about 8 AM – 2 PM before the rain started at 2ish...

Hanging in the Strawberry Capital of India

Nick is away for several weeks on a TDY (temporary duty assignment) in Abu Dhabi. In order to break up what would be a very long stretch of solo parenting, I decided that Nia and I would need to go on some sort of adventure as well. However, we had some constraints to consider when...

Why I’m Proud to Be a Cusper

I have long been fascinated by generational differences, especially in terms of how they show up in the workplace. I was born in 1980, which means I straddle two generations (Gen X and Millennials). There is no authority of note on this topic, so ranges for each generation can vary a bit...

Sarah’s Tech Evolution

Hey folks – Been feeling very reminiscent lately. I recently came across one of those “Children of the 80’s” posts on Facebook that showed all the popular items from our youth. One of the featured items was a Walkman, which got me thinking about my relationship...

Why is it so damn hard to play?

I thought parenting would make me a better play-er. When I give my daughter the option to choose an activity for Mommy/Daughter time, she inevitably chooses imaginative play with some combination of her Hatchimals/Littlest Pet Shop/Playmobil/Ponies. I can’t tell you how much I...